[BrightFuture]

Well, I have some updates, just was not motivated to post. Busy, tired, lazy, and well… just not motivated.

First, the GAL activities… I’ve been doing a lot of it lately. Last week I went for a happy hour with a group of people from work, then to a after work gathering for wine and snacks with a different group, then on Friday – dinner with my GF (bumped into my BIL, H’s brother, his GF and the friends who know me and H). Then on Saturday I was at the St. Patrick ’s Day party in the neighborhood.

This Monday I went to a celebration party after work that was dedicated to a completion of a project at work. And at last, this Saturday I’m going to a B-day party on a party boat at the harbor. I’m kind of exhausted, but I’m glad I went to all of these.

H has been sort of in contact. I just don’t pay attention anymore about the frequency. When H was in the house last time to pick up his mail, etc. he asked me to send him a company file, so he could reconcile his credit card. I did send the file. There was no answer for some time. I went online and checked if the card was paid and it wasn’t. He also promised to send me the tax info, but didn’t. So, I sent a text asking him if he was still considering to file taxes jointly, and if yes, to send me the tax info. He replied with the numbers. I also texted him asking to send me updated company file. He texted back that he would do it next day.

So, next day he e-mailed me the file. When I checked it, I saw that he wrote a check to pay for the credit card bill. It was one day before the bill was due. This was kind of interesting. In the past, he would be very upset if he was late with credit card bills. He would find other ways to pay it, over the phone, directly from the back account, etc. This time it seemed like he didn’t care.

A few days ago I sent a text to him with the numbers for auto insurance policy renewal, which he asked me to do, so he could decide whether to reduce the coverage on his car and truck. He replied back asking me if I could wait to pay it, so he could explore his options. I said “sure”. It’s been 5 days now, and there is no reply from him. It is not like him. He normally gets the stuff done pretty quickly. How hard is it to call around and get the quotes!? Or decide to reduce the coverage on the track, since his car is already at a minimum coverage – liability only. Unless there is something different in that statement about exploring the options that I don’t understand…

On another note, he’s been very polite lately, asking me if I needed some favors, thanking me for everything, and even adding my name like this: “thanks, Bright”.

Other than that, there is nothing going on in my sitch . I’ve been feeling better. Just dread another setback, which seems to be inevitable… based on the past experience…

Oh, and I forgot to mention. I became friends on Facebook with a woman who is also friends with H and our mutual friends at the vacation home place. Her FB account was so private that I could not see who she had as friends. Well, H happened to be one of them. And then another common friend sent a friend request… So, this woman had a b-day and everyone was posting on her page. I posted before H, so now he probably knows that I’m on the FB. So, my DB coach’s suggestion from almost 2 years ago has now been implemented. How weird is that.