Someone just told me that liberation is the feeling that Wayward wife is feeling. The LBS is feeling dejection and sadness. That just stuck me as true - that is how they are feeling, regarldess of how many people they hurt and how many things they must sacrifice. For them it's all worth it - freedom at last.
That is beyond sad.
I just had to comment on this. I realize that it is an older post, but I know exactly how you feel.
Like you, I am the LBS and am doing my best to GAL and string together a few successive days where I don't feel so sad and like I'm a failure.
She, on the other hand, remains involved with her affair partner and cannot see the destruction and pain that she has caused, and not just with me. She lives M-F with her son in a separate hosehold, and goes to the OM's house every weekend. She has yet to incorporate her family with him and his family, and thinks it is perfectly appropriate to have 2 separate and parallel lives. She has completely written my children off as well. All in the interest of spending time with her new "soulmate".
Sad indeed.
Kramer - I just had to react to this - she will not see the destruction until she is out of the A. Right now this is all she is focused on. Why not use that to your advantage? You know where she is mentally - build a plan based on that.
Not quite sure how to do that, unfortunately.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
