It is early days.

I understand it can take up to 4 days and for some as many as 7 days for reality to bite after an intervention.

Denial phase for H, I feel. Then anger but that quickly turns inwards if they are ashamed then down days of thinking. My VSO said a three week cycle, if they react quickly there has been little effect, they still feel in control and nothing will change. He is seeing MC that is good.

I have just gone pitch black on my H and will do so for two weeks if I can, then only business style stuff and then a little warmer. I made a similar offer on the abuse, if you want the change route H then there are resources, if not then I am not being abused, if you try it then I will get a restraint order.

I believe this can be one make or break for your H. There could be more or a series if you stand firm.

Personally I would be worried by an instant apology or sweet talk.

V


Last edited by Vanilla; 03/20/15 01:28 AM.
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