You got that right Cali, it is up to us in the end. And yes, I have to say I have read some of the same things many times here, and it seems like one day it just clicks. And then we've taken another step toward becoming ourselves again. One foot in front of the other. We'll all get there eventually...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
