Originally Posted By: Mozza
Me standing at her door until she changes or mind or that some local law allows her to rip apart our M certificate is not a healthy reaction.

Agreed.

What I disagree with is this:

Originally Posted By: Mozza
flirting and dating...is the healthy and self-respecting reaction to rejection.

Where did you get that idea?

Respecting yourself isn't forcing yourself to date, it's allowing time for you to grieve, process, and heal before you jump back out there.

-PM

Last edited by PatientMan; 03/19/15 11:13 PM.

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