It helps Toots, and it is exactly what I need to prepare myself to do.
I just got these messages from H:
"Or maybe, if they want, I could take S17/S14 to the mountains Saturday & we could get together sometime on Sunday?"
then
"I just checked the weather & probably Sunday is a better day to ski/snowboard, if they want to go. Please, let me know what you think. Thanks"
First, I do not need to think, we are talking about big teenagers and they can think for themselves. Second, H is so predictable now... can we get together Saturday? or sunday? then sunday is a better day for skiing.
Really? So maybe we get together Saturday, he gets a very nice home made meal and then he stays in a house so he is there by 5am. WTH?
I know someone will say that I am reading minds, whatever, but he does not change, it's always the same. And I know very well it should not get me so worked out and angry, but he is so shameless.
I need to think before answering him. That's what he does, since I am dark, then he text a million times, try to be nice to me and to the kids. I am starting hating him.
I will go home now and drink a good coffee. Need some.
Thanks ladies, I will calm down and then answer H with polite words. I will do what it takes to make the best D for myself.