My basic rhetoric tonight goes something like this:
"I hear you; we have a lot to wade through, and I'm also starting to wonder if it's too much. That said, if you really want to work on our marriage, I'm in 100%. That means IC for you, MC for us, and both doing everything we can to build a new marriage together. If you don't feel like you can commit to working on us, then it's obvious we have some decisions to make. If that's the case, then maybe that's what needs to happen for both of us."
I think she's still going to know she has you on the sideline. Change the dynamic. Take charge
Women are attracted to a confident man that doesn't waiver in his decisions. Make your decision, stick through it. Post here if you have doubts.
