My basic rhetoric tonight goes something like this:

"I hear you; we have a lot to wade through, and I'm also starting to wonder if it's too much. That said, if you really want to work on our marriage, I'm in 100%. That means IC for you, MC for us, and both doing everything we can to build a new marriage together. If you don't feel like you can commit to working on us, then it's obvious we have some decisions to make. If that's the case, then maybe that's what needs to happen for both of us."

Last edited by Rzrback; 03/19/15 09:39 PM.
Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood