Thanks T, you're exactly right. I make no bones about the fact that I was not always the best husband. I made lots of mistakes that helped get us to this part. I'm perfectly ready to put the A mostly behind us so we can focus on our core issues.
She can't see a way to fall back in love with me so to her it's hopeless. To me she can fall back in love with me but it's buried under a lot of emotional crap that we both need to work through.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood