The advice my L gave me was to put everything aside and do what was best for me and the boys financially. If this meant swallowing my pride and doig something I didn't want to but it was for the greater good of the boys and I's future then it's what I did.
Think of this ... Whatever you do may be painful now but may be better off for you in the future. Do what is best for You - try not to let your anger get in the way of making the best decision for what may come in the future.
my goal during D was to have the best outcome financially for the boys and I and to make sure my children were in the best situation they could be.
