Thanks Drew and Toots. I just read through Rzr's latest thread. There definitely are some similarities with my switch. Like his W, my W is leading with her feelings and emotions.

I just need to back off. She needs to pursue me. If she wants out, I cannot stop her. I am a good man. And like Rzr's W, my W says I am a great catch. I am just done with this back and forth roller coaster and limbo.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed