Wow Sandi, that's an incredible post and we are lucky indeed to have you here on the forum.

Do you think those emotions of resentment, disrespect and rebellion apply to any WAS, not just WAWs?

Really, we need a male version of you Sandi to start an equally fantastic thread for the wayward husbands!

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus