That's why I'm posting. I don't want to decide anything until I get some feedback and also until I have a chance to talk with her face to face, calmly. Me spending my entire workday on the phone getting berated is not the path to mature decision making.

Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood