Pink - would it be possible to go over some financial information Saturday? I have some documents I copied for you & really need your help for a few things. ...... For many years I have been "nagging" him to go over finances and asking for his participation and input on so many decisions I needed to take by myself.
Now he asked me a million times to do it. Now, I am not interested to sit down with him to go over finances. And, the most amazing... he wants me to do the hard work on many calculations to find average monthly expenses on everything and gives it all to him to just copy to his sworn financial statement.
My L's advice was to swallow my pride and leg go the anger. Give it all resolved to him and if he agrees to state my numbers then it will be easier to just agree on monthly expenses and the judge won't make a big deal on it since it does not have discrepancies.
But I am angry that again I need to babysit his needs and resolve his issues, as I always did. And the worse is that he is asking me all this because he is taking a week vacation with his F OW.
He does not know I found out what he will be doing, so he is playing all innocent saying that he is working hard for us, for our family.
I know I told Toots I would be more sympathetic with H and try to understand he is lost and doesn't know what he is doing right now. But it is so hard, H is selfish and is just thinking about himself without respecting anyone in his way.
Most of the time, I feel that he always plans his every move, he always benefit from the situation.
Ahg... I wish I just hate him and tell him to fly a kite in Japan, far away from me.
So, what do you guys think? Play the game and do what my L is saying, and again resolve my H's issues or just ignore him and tell him he can do whatever he wants. Anyway, H is a big boy and knows how to schedule trips and fun with his OW, then he can probably figure it out about finances.
At this point I wish I can just dress up in pink and show up at the Dublin airport. That is really sounding like a better choice.
V, pink blush? You got RD on this one. I never saw pink underwear, that would be really funny. So, what do we call this... it's not EA, should we say it's VA (virtual affair?).
