I should have said that better, kml -- I meant there's nothing anyone can do if Abbey isn't willing to put in the work. I'm sure you'd agree with that.
Abbey, as you know I've posted to you as much as anybody, and you KNOW I want to help you. I don't care if you come back and tell me you hate me and I'm full of cr*p -- COME BACK. You always disappear, then come and post with a vent, and then disappear again without facing the tough questions.
We're only trying to help you. I HATE seeing you in this kind of pain, and I truly want you to confront this and get past it. I promise, there IS a happier, healthier world waiting on the other side!