Thanks Kramer and CaliGuy for reading and commenting.
Yes, it helps to know that others are going through the same thing. I have my l on the case and wont speak to my WAW. I have also told my L to drag this out in the hopes that the A will fizzle on it's own and we can get some therapy or at least start to talk again. I am not sure if this will even happen but that is my plan. I am trying my best to work it and hope that it works or at least gets her off alien planet.
This is just the saddest and most bizare thing I have ever encountered. Again, I never thought I would be in this situation. Right now when my WAW looks at me, which is rare these days, it's with such hatred in her eyes and when she talks to me or leaves me a message it's sooooooo cold and I can feel the anger there. Even in her email messages, ice cold and I read the tension in it. At first I thought maybe I am imagining them and now I think the tension is really there but I am not giving it any oxygen, she can pout and act like a teenager all she wants, I ignore her. I would guess that it's no fun to pout and not get any attention.
She then blames my lack at reaction is hurting the children. Phooey, I now see the manipulation she is using. Again, I ignore her and go on my way.
This is about to get more real on Friday and she is going to be really furious as a major dose of reality hits her. Oh well, Let's see how mad she gets. On a scale of 1-10, I am guessing a 10. I will keep you posted.