She has to actually make some effort, herself, in this MR. It's as if she is just there pondering over the same old issues and looking at you to "prove" to her this can work. You must feel like a defense attorney at trial.
Sandi, you nailed it again. From our R talk this morning (I shut it down eventually)
W: "How am I ever going to trust you again?" (In referring to my mishandling of my parents).
All she cares about is what I'm doing to make her feel better and she's angry because nothing I do or say works. I'm exhausted.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood