My wife asked me if I could name fix days of the week for the time with the children. Her argument is that S10 could handle it better this way. Although I do my best, it is difficult not to start thinking about her motives. I'd rather see the children whenever possible and not on fix days. It makes me angry and sad, because this mess would have been avoidable.
Whenever she's been to the therapist she is "stabilized" again.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out