I'm glad that the divorce is finally over for you because now you can put your focus on you and your life. Divorce proceedings take up a lot of time, energy and money. You've got a list of things that you will need to do in the near future and I have no doubt that you won't get them done in the next couple of weeks. However, I'm very sorry that you aren't going to continue to live in the house that you designed. That's a shame, but glad "she" won't be there either.
If you decide to date, go out and have some fun. Nothing says you have to have serious relationship quickly. There are plenty of men out there and you want to enjoy the time you spend w/them. If you opt not to get serious about someone, that's okay too....because when the time is right, the right man will cross your path when you least expect it.
Enjoy your new found freedom. It's not how you wanted thing to go down...but sometimes what we don't want actually turns out to be a blessing in disguise.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
