At the moment Mza can hold his head high and say "no matter what your Mom did, I stood for M. I began to date after the D, I am a man of my word and keep my promises that I made. I am proud of that".
And
"My ex wife behaved very badly, even cheated twice, but I kept my vows for the sake of my M. I stood for me."
A few months seems a small price to pay to know this for the rest of your life.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW