Complex No. 6 - The turtle and the rabbit

[Complex]

Sounds like everyone is experiencing the same. I guess it part of the healing process. It helps me to see there is something else out there.
But he'll no I am not ready for dating, the healing process will take so much longer until I feel ready for something serious. I just have desires, but I don't act upon them. It feels good tho to be acknowledged by the other gender.

Besides showing consistency, which I think is most important in my sitch right now and also for myself, what is there I can do to show W that I understand her feelings and understand the "simplified" statement I made when I answered 25yr (I do listen and validate but I don't really ask how she is doing etc.)?
I actually feel like I'm DB pretty well, taking good care of myself.
I just find it so important in this phase to stay true to myself and that I'm not too hard on myself.