phunguy, I can relate to W not doing alot with the kids. I come home alot of times with homework needing to be done or something else with the kids. She hasn't shut them out completely, just different than it used to be. She does buy them stuff alot though. Not the same thing to me. It almost seems like she goes through ups and downs with it. Now her S from first marriage is staying with us. That is who she bonds with the most. It is weird!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"