Alrighty! You've asked for some clarification.

Don't tell me that you weren't forewarned.

I'm saying that I can freely date because I'm no longer bound by M even though I am on paper.

What do you call this if it is not an "intellectual" argument??!!!!

Reality check: you're are still a married man in the EYES of every person on the planet until the decree has been signed.

Still wanna to wiggle out of that one?

She leaves me overnight in a smokescreen of lies, sleeps with another man, tells him words of love, commits to him, moves in with him and then, after she's done all of this, I date.

How does this make it different??!! Pray and tell.

Still trying to contort yourself to satisfy yourself intellectually as to pass yourself as having some kind of moral high ground here??!! confused confused

Regarding the filing, she wants to be D'ed as soon as the law allows (she rushes everything she has to do) and I told her, as per DB, that I wouldn't stand in her way nor help her much. I'm not filing for her.

Ugh?! Let me try to get this straight: You want to date other women, but don't want a D. What does that make you??! A player?

Hmmmmm....am I just about right?

What kind of man do you want to be?