Got back from the vacation on Tues morn. We had a room with two double beds but as they were pushed together we slept side by side the whole week. No shyness about nudity. But also no touching - or very little. She would occasionally touch me playfully. We had a relaxing and fun time with D27 and her fiancé.

But when we got home our cat was rushed to the hospital with neurological trauma. He's still in the hospital after an MRI today. Still no diagnosis, but the worst case scenarios have been ruled out. W is beside herself with worry - she has a very close bond to our kitty.

So no R talk for the past 10 days. A bit of a relief. I do feel like bringing it up, but I had said I wouldn't, so I'll stick to my word. Just continue the limbo, but most of all deal with the cat issue right now and support W in her worry.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014