If she agrees to MC I would definitely go for it. But be very careful who you go see. I find it difficult to find a good one. They should be trained in SBT. Mine is, but I think she still has a deep-seated belief that adultery is a deal-breaker.

You want to find someone who believes that marriages can survive and be better after infidelity, and who can guide you through the reconciliation process.

Especially if W is willing. That's a good sign. My W thinks it's a waste of money right now. And she may be right at this juncture.

I sense a willingness on your W's part to at least roll up her sleeves and get working on your R.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014