I honestly think the reason my WAW is pushing so hard for this D is so she can marry the AP. That is the only reason that makes sense to me. So again, who am I to stand in the way of true love?
This is the second time you've said this rhetorical question. Stop it. It's not true love. It is a drug.
Let me tell you what I've learned from having a front row seat to my late father's affairs and seeing other affairs as well.
For most of my life, my father has had a parade of OWs come and go. Where are they? Lost in the mist of history. None of them lasted at all.
One couple had a torrid affair. They divorced their spouses and married each other. They had a son together. Five years on, they divorced. Ayep.
From what I've observed IRL, I have seen all affairs BREAK up...both gay and straight. To my knowledge, I have not yet seen one affair couple going to the distance IRL. Most of these affairs I've witnessed lasted an average of 2 years or less.