Mozza. I completely understand. I mentioned in my thread about the girl from cooking classes. After last night I am into her, in a way, because it's nice to feel wanted after being rejected by someone you love.

Get out there, flirt, date, do something to take your mind off of things and you will be shocked how quickly your perception changes.

For instance, I would have done anything to get my wife back. And I mean anything. But at this point, after our first divorce mediation (tonight) I realized that I do not want the "new" her. I want the "old" her, but that person is long gone. And I am ok with that. Because this gal from cooking class gave my ego just enough stroke to realize that I am still somewhat desirable, that there is someone else out there for me.

Go for it!


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016