^^^I think Cali is in training to become the next 'moderator' for this forum. :-) He's doing a great job. What he said.
Jer, you seem to have come a long way in a relatively short time. There is lots to endure, for sure. And you seem to have found your path. Stay on it, and you will continue to become the better, smarter, wiser, stronger person your were always meant to be! You just might leave W in the dust...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15