vge1 - I'm praying for you. I simply cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you and your children. You sound strong and level-headed. You'll need to dig deep to get through the next few months, but I know you can do it. We're here to listen.
And I'm glad to hear you say you don't want your MLC'r back. He sure doesn't sound like a keeper to me. WOW. I know he's in MLC, but this is just such horrendous behavior. Remember, HE is the one who has to live with himself, his choices, his consequences. Maybe one day he will see the hurt he caused. Then, God help him. Blessings to you vge1.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15