Don't see how I can win this.

[Mozza]

It sounds like you got your answer: the behaviour of your W will change. Keep in mind that DB says it's not about the OP. So in a way, we shouldn't care. We're just waiting from a sign from WAS.

In my case, I expect the kids to tell me and in your case I almost expect that your WAW will tell you. This being said, we shouldn't get fixated on this. In fact, I plan to change almost nothing initially if OM is out of the picture, to show WAW that I'm not using every opportunity to win her back, that I'm moving on and understand that it was not about OM. This should make them think about our stance.