hold on! - 8

[u-turn]

She was receptive to MC, she was the one to mention it (2 weeks ago). She is seeing a Therapist at her work to discuss her attack and dui a couple of weeks ago. I don't think she is going to talk about her A to him.

I asked her this morning if she really meant she wanted to go to MC and she said I did mean it at the time. We did not have a very good reaction when we went to MC in May-June. She was deep,deep,deep with OM at that point which I didn't know (I believed it when she said it was over - yeesh) - it was a waste and maybe made things worse.

The NC letter request is what she is reacting to. I think she is reacting to the fact that I do not trust her, which in her mind may mean that I will never trust her - so this is a waste of time anyway.

I do not want to give an inch on NC boundary - though truth is better than the letter. I don't know if there is another way that she would be willing to prove NC. I don't know of any.