Try to get there Jer ...Jer2.0.. its the hardest but most rewarding part of all of this.
I'm trying... :-)
The couch thing is funny... I've read your posts about it before... There are moments when I can detach enough to just sit and observe like W is a science experiment -- I just need for those "detached" moments to be more frequent and longer in length.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015