Complex No. 6 - The turtle and the rabbit

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Hi Complex,

I think looking around at what it out there female wise is perfectly natural. Maybe it is a sign that you although you want things to work out, if they don't you are coming to terms that one day there might have to be someone else for you. Admittedly I have been doing the same, looking at people I pass by and weighing up in my head if I liked them or not, what a R would be like etc.

Of course the key thing is whether or not you intend to act on these new feelings or urges. Do you? Are you just speculating on what it might be like or are you giving it serious consideration that you would maybe want to begin looking at other women? I don't think there is a right or wrong answer there, just more of a signpost as to where you're at and what you should be focusing your energies on.

I may be wrong but from the comments you wrote about making a promise it seems that you are not at the 'moving on' stage at the moment. If that is the case I would not advise entering into another R if that's going to make any future reconciliation more complicated/impossible.