Hi Dtr, sorry things are so tough right now. Rotten that you had to read that stuff, and good to stop once you know what is going on. No need to torture yourself any further.
Just on your D overhearing. Does your D know that you plan to raise it with your W? I do think it's appropriate to consider a boundary on this. Your W shouldn't be having convo's like that, which D can overhear. But if D told you in confidence, you may want to let her know that you plan to talk to your W and check that it's ok...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
