Man, if I had a dollar for every single time my wife said I don't love you, we're never going to get back together, etc...
Honestly, you can't even worry if she's noticing your changes, just change you for you. She'll notice.
Given how things are working out for you right now, this feels me with enormous hope for the future of my own M. My changes are going to be for ME! Thanks Jefe.
BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6