Man, if I had a dollar for every single time my wife said I don't love you, we're never going to get back together, etc...
Honestly, you can't even worry if she's noticing your changes, just change you for you. She'll notice.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3