Just in how I talked to her and related to the world around me. I was critical of everything she did. Hell, I was critical of everything anyone did. When I learned to respond to her in love no matter what she did, to have nothing to say about anything (except when she crossed my boundaries even then, I responded in love) she started paying more attention. Oh, and a lot of prayer. But it totally different for everyone.

A lot of prodigals feel like they are slowly drowning while everyone watches on. Not that this excuses their behavior, because they can certainly make better choices of how they deal with things, but it does attempt to explain their behavior. They want to make damn sure they are not jumping back into the deep end with concrete shoes again. That's why the changes in us standers is so important.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3