Cherry,

I'm sorry you find yourself here. It's a difficult place to be but I do hope you are enjoying your baby.

Please don't take this negatively and I'm just speaking from personal experience. Beware of MC. If your h wants to go for "closure" he may very well use this opportunity to gaslight and grandstand about how he's miserable and done everything. Essentially, wanting the MC to confirm his position. And no how pro marriage the MC is, it will be an epic waste of time.

MC only works if BOTH parties are committed. Going to MC while one party in having an A (whether it's emotional or physical) is again, a waste of time. Otherwise, it's a $h!t show and I say that because I've seen many others in the same sitch.

Focus on you. Make changes for you. Focus on your child. You can do this. :-)

Last edited by Georgiabelle; 03/18/15 07:16 PM.


3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
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