Wife having emotional affair 5

[3kids]

PM thank you. I feel I am in a good spot. Just not use to her trying to make an effort. It's kind of confusing me.

Like right now, her plan as it is to move all her stuff between her storage shed and my place. Live at her moms and slowly work her way into my house. Which is fine. But then every other day or so she will make a comment that totally contradicts what her plan is that she has told me. Now I don't say anything when she makes these comments. Because she is probably scared or unsure of something when they come out. But I guess I need to look at some positives. She calls more and texts more.

The probable I have is that she is not blunt in words. She himms and ha's around stuff. Take last night, I was taking the kids to a science exhibit at the school. Right before we left my daughter had to go to the bathroom. Then I get her yelling for me and says I'm bleeding. Yep, my 9 year old daughter started her period. I handled it as good as a freaked out dad could handle it. Ran to the store and stared at a wall and finally called the wife (didn't answer,working) then family members for help on what to get (I am not ready for this). The wife called me back shortly and told me what to do. The wife said she would stop over after work and she did. She explained every thing that needs to be done. I thanked her and she left. She sent a text this morning saying "I really wish I was there for all these events, I hate that I'm not".

This is what I don't get. If you hate something why not change it!

Confused but left with patience

Thanks
3kids