Guys, I don't think I am un-safe. I am unhappy. And I don't like the violence, but he has never harmed me or wounded me. I don't believe he will, either. I don't want to go to a shelter, that would add more stress and inconvenience than anything.

Thanks for your thoughts, keep them coming please!


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.