I requested that she give me full decision making, she has not fully decided to give me sole decision making for the children(in our state this is essentially full legal custody), out of fears that I will not take her needs into consideration but she knows that I will always put the kids first and take care of them.
Is this b/c you are afraid she'll leave the state with the kids?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
