I would have said to W in the following scenarios:
W: Can't get over the OM...blah blah....
Rzr: I am not having this conversation. You know where I stand on this subject. walk away
W: I can't take it anymore. Let's do a trial S or separate.
Rzr: Yeah, I agree....that's the best idea ever. Let's do it. You can move out because it seems when things get too difficult, you want to separate every single time as if it is the only solution.
I am with Sandi. You two need to explore NEW things and expand your horizons as a couple. Why don't you take the initiative and sign up for a cooking class that you & W can go together at a local college/continuing education course?
Just do it.
I'm waiting for the next time she brings up OM. I was able to shut things down last time and the world did not implode. Maybe I have a taste for it now.
I was thinking scuba, but yeah, I think it's time.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
