I agree with Starsky here on the goals vs signs thing. I definitely kept a log of "signs" for nothing more than to help myself along. Even the silly insignificant ones because when you put them all together you start to get a clear picture of how the things you are doing are working. However that should not be your focus. YOU should be your focus. Ultimately the changes I made in myself are what got my wife's attention.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3