I would have said to W in the following scenarios:
W: Can't get over the OM...blah blah....
Rzr: I am not having this conversation. You know where I stand on this subject. walk away
W: I can't take it anymore. Let's do a trial S or separate.
Rzr: Yeah, I agree....that's the best idea ever. Let's do it. You can move out because it seems when things get too difficult, you want to separate every single time as if it is the only solution.
I am with Sandi. You two need to explore NEW things and expand your horizons as a couple. Why don't you take the initiative and sign up for a cooking class that you & W can go together at a local college/continuing education course?
