RD, thanks for your sympthy. S15 realised it wold be painful: he sat through all the meetings, kids don't know about these things and cannot imagine them but I think he was a bit surprised by how painful it was.
RPP, I think you're right. WW was reminded today about kind of person I am.
I wish I was determined to just up and go after S15 gets better but I waver and worry.
And thanks V, you never know how you will cope until the challenge is thrown down. She failed abysmally and I took it on with aplomb if I say so myself.
I even got some validating in without gloating or anything.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner