Ok.

You know what stinks? Friends/family being like, eh, you had a fight. Do you want to throw it all away on a fight?

And I feel myself starting to lose my resolve. Like V said earlier, one of them is like, "don't tell him what his option to fix it is. Lay the hurt out there, lay the boundary, and let him decide what he's going to do about it." And all I see happening out of that is more of the same, another few months of it.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.