Hi Starsky thanks for the advice... The car is in my name.
So today things got a lot worse... or better in terms of intel.
I run the mail server all the stuff goes through for all family emails, there was an issue today and I was sorting some things out. Anyways she had sent an email to herself of an attachment of every conversation upto yesterday she has had with OM/A on whatsapp (their medium of choice for text).
I couldn't resist, I downloaded and started reading... The EA was going on for two months before, chatting online. The first meeting was planned, and not "off the cuff" as claimed. I haven't even read 10% there is such a huge volume to go through... Should I read it all even though it hurts like hell to read? But is more knowledge worth more pain?
So I guess I at least have intel and now know she is wildly in love with her AP and had discussed leaving me for him months ago...
Right now I feel awful and just want to go lie down and cry, but I am determined that this won't knock me off track.
I just need help from you guys on how to sort this out, just glad I didn't make any financial commitments yesterday!
Save it, back it up, and give both copies to a TRUSTED third party to go thru for you, and only give you an "executive summary" of it and alert you to any immediate threats (legal, financial).
I'm sorry, Detrmnd. At least you have CLARITY now.
