BD2 - July 2014, H admits PA. I move to parents 2 hrs away
Jul-Sep 2014 - lots of talking with H, A continues, he's 'confused.'
Oct-Feb 2014 - Virtually NC. I rent a flat, build up my own life, no idea of A status.
Feb 2015 - H made redundant. Wants to sell our house. Says our R is over, then backtracks. OW back in the country, but H is 'dating' others ATM.
Mar 2015 - Agree to sell house, formalise S and divide assets. H then says he wants us to D. I tell him I love him and D isn't what I want. He's thinking about things.
Thanks to you all for your kind support and positive feedback. This forum makes a world of difference during the darker times.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus