So, a lot to process. Let it all sink in, that's a lot of hurt to absorb.

Don't say anything to him just yet. I lost my H's family when we were S cause my parents were dead, my brothers lived far away and we had lost the closeness we had as kids. (long story) I can understand your pain but it does get better.

As Dub said, great your own tradition. Go to Europe for the week. wink


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss