Just noticed he ran up a nice big tab on my debit card (I loaned it to him for groceries that he couldn't get) out partying last night. That takes the cake. I see no recovery possible, the disrespect is unfathomable to me.
Wish me luck tonight as I deliver the news, we are going to have the divorce he wanted.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
